It feels like someone punched you in the gut and it’s hard to breathe. You just found out your partner has been cheating on you and you have no idea what to do. You can’t believe this is happening to you.
You think back to your wedding day and when you first started dating. You were so in love. How could you end up here? How did it get to this point?
You don’t want your marriage to end. But, how are you ever going to trust them again? How are you ever going to look at them the same way? Will you ever feel comfortable and safe with them ever again? Will you always doubt their faithfulness from this point forward? Will you ever stop checking their phone and seeing if they’re hiding something? You ask yourself how could you miss this? You even wonder if you did something wrong.
You’re in investigation mode trying to find answers and figure it all out. At this point, your investigation skills probably qualify you to work for the FBI.
Sometimes you want your partner to wrap you in their arms and comfort you. Other times, you can’t even look at them. You are devastated, mad, hurt, betrayed, and possibly even thinking it may be your “fault”.
You want to get through this, but don’t know how. Should you stay for the kids? What are you going to tell your family and friends? If you do stay with the person who cheated on you, are you compromising your own integrity? It’s hard to know which way to turn.
Unfortunately, infidelity is really becoming more common than people realize. But, not everyone talks about it. You are definitely not alone in this!
Other couples just like you…in your exact situation…have been able to heal their pain and trust each other again. It is absolutely possible to recover from this. I have helped other couples have an even better relationship than ever before. You can too!
Call or e-mail me today so that I can start helping you and your partner repair your trust and rebuild your connection.